Idlib Calling: children, not wives!

December 18, 2018

Tuesday 18 December

I couldn’t reach Ahmed for the last week. I saw that he wasn’t online, not on WhatsApp or on Facebook. I was getting worried, so I asked a Syrian friend in Amsterdam to find out what was going on. The news came quickly – everything was OK.

Ahmed, I’ve been trying to reach you for a while – where have you been?

“I saw that you were trying to reach me. Nothing’s wrong, it’s just that my phone was broken. I couldn’t use it for three days. So, nothing to worry about.”

Well, I was worried. Sorry I got so worked up.

“Don´t worry about it. Actually, it´s nice to know you were worried – it shows you were thinking about me. Shall I tell you what we’re up to? ”

“We’re working on making a video against child marriages. That’s increasingly common here, children getting married. People are too poor to take care of their children, so they marry their girls off at a younger and younger age. Some girls are married off when they´re 13 or 14 years old. I´ve got two daughters myself, so this really hits me.”

“We’re starting a campaign to talk with parents and to point out the health hazards for the girl, but that she’s entitled to education. We visit the parents, we make leaflets and we’ll use the film once it’s finished.”

“We’re also painting graffiti on the walls here in Saraqeb. For example: tiffalate, la zawgaat! (children, not wives!). ”

“The underlying problem is poverty. You know where we stand on that issue. Consciousness is important, but if people don’t see a way out … parents often tell me, “Fine, give us money and we’ll let our children go to school.” How can you respond? We can’t do much except remind them or their responsibility as parents. And sometimes that helps.”

“The movie should be done soon. Shall I send it to you when its ready? ”

Gladly. But it’s almost vacation here. I’ll keep an eye on my phone. Will you let me know when it’s there?

“Sure, and wish everyone there a happy holiday and a happy New Year from us!”

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